What’s in a Name?

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What’s in a Name?

What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet. William Shakespeare

I have a nickname that I go by and for damn good reason. My mother named me after a popular Beatle’s song and I absolutely hate it. Abhor it! Resent it! My husband has only ever known me by my nickname, although he’s well aware of my real name. He called me by my given name to someone who is a complete stranger to me. She had friended me on Facebook and I was looking at her page wanting to learn a little about her when I ran across their conversation in her home page and saw he had called me by my given name!!! Now, I know this may seem trite, but it hurt my  feelings and makes me feel like he doesn’t even know me. I don’t even begin to know why he did it, what on Earth would incite him to call me  by my given name, especially to this woman that I don’t even know! I realize that they are fiends from way back but it makes absolutely NO SENSE TO ME and my feelings are hurt!!! Very hurt! Now I don’t even want to know this woman because what is she supposed to think when my husband, who has always called me Jaz, has given her a completely different name, someone who I AM NOT!  What is she supposed to think when everyone calls me Jaz and so does he and out of the blue he calls me by a name I NEVER use and no one calls me by that!!!!

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Freedom From the Chemical Carousel (FFCC) is a new group forming in the Boise, Idaho area for alcoholics and by alcoholics. This not an AA group and there is no discussion of religion/prayers at any time during the group. The groups premise is based on current medical knowledge available and shared with the group to give the suffering alcoholic hope. We also don't keep milestones as we feel that the desire to quit is more important than the length of time a person has been sober because we all know that relapse is so very hard to prevent and when you have milestones held over your head it may make you feel guilty if you falter causing you to fall away from your attempt at sobriety. The only requirement is a desire to get off the sick chemical carousel. There are no fees, no expectations, nothing to buy. All the information is free and is given freely in the hope that what they have learned can help another alcoholic.

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  1. I could accept any name that came from a Beatles song. On the other hand, back in 2003 I dropped my last name and took my middle name as my last name. Cost me two dates in court, $35 for the court filing fee, and $47 for the required newspaper notices.

      • I think I would love having people sing to me my whole life.

        Now you have me guessing: Michelle, Sexy Sadie, Carol, Clarabella, Lucille, Anna, Sally, Lizzy, Eleanor, Lucy, Rita, Madonna, Mary Jane, Prudence, Martha, Julia, Yoko, Pam, Maggie.

        Those are just the women’s names in the titles of Beatle songs. There might be some more women mentioned in the lyrics.

  2. Isn’t it funny how we tend not to like our own name. I was called Margaret by my family… ugh. I prefer Maggie.. Jaz is a good name… and if thats what you like, there is no reason to reveal your given name.

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