“Earthquakes just happen. Tornadoes just happen. Your tongue does not just happen to fall into some other girls mouth!”
― Gemma Halliday, Deadly Cool
Kira and I have been insanely busy getting ready for our gig on Wednesday, she has been stressed out because of the rehearsal time involved. Now, to add to her stress, she just found a bunch of nude pics of a girl that lives 2 doors down from her boyfriend. If that’s not bad enough, this girl and Kira’s boyfriend have been exchanging sexual text messages. She came home crying and I held her. I don’t know how to tell her that 18 year old boys do really stupid things. I didn’t know how to tell her that 18 year old boys think with their little head. I didn’t know how to take away her hurt. It made me cry, like the first time she got her inoculations, or the first time she scraped her knee. But this, this is far worse because her pain is inside and I don’t have a band-aid for that and it hurts me inside that I can’t help her. All I can do is give her words and support her. I told her to dump the ass clown immediately, problem is, she’s in love with him. We know, as adults, how quickly and easily we forgive when we love someone really deep. All I can do now, as a mother, is support her and try to keep her busy so she doesn’t sit and dwell on the fact that this boy, that I liked so well, is not worthy of her love.
That makes my mommy heart hurt.
Mine too
I remember so clearly crying on my mother’s shoulder when some goofball boy broke my little girl heart. The funny thing is that I don’t remember the boy, but I remember the shoulder. That’s the part that matters. Big hugs to both of you.
Thank you for that. Thay, of course have worked it out. I don’t know how, but they did. She must really love him.
Today.
She is so young, and love hurts so bad at that age. You’re a great mom! You’re doing all that you really can. You are there for her. Blessings to you and Kira!
Thank you so much. I love her dearly and would do just about anything for her!