Don’t think. Thinking is the enemy of creativity. It’s self-conscious, and anything self-conscious is lousy. You can’t try to do things. You simply must do things. Ray Bradbury
Good Morning! I wanted to share with you the thoughts behind creativity. One of the hardest things I face right now as a musician, vocalist first, rhythm guitar player second, is the fact that I am married to a lead guitar player. Now why would that be a difficulty. Weeeellllllll, it’s like this. He loves my vocals but absolutely hates my guitar playing. He gets frustrated with me because I refuse to listen to him…LOL
It’s not that I don’t want to, it’s just that when I am playing a song I tend to play it on the guitar more like I feel it rather than by the structured “rules” of guitar playing. I don’t mean to do it, I really don’t mean to break the “rules”, it’s just that when I am singing and playing rhythm guitar my guitar tends to pattern the rhythm after what is happening with the vocals. He has said that my rhythm patterns are too much alike. I don’t think so, I know that there is a definitive difference between the way I played guitar 10 years ago. Hell, to me there is a vast difference between just 6 months ago. My rhythm guitar playing skills is probably the biggest challenge I face as a musician today. I want to give you an example. The song I have been talking about, Dac’w Nghariad, is incredibly difficult. First it’s sung in Welsh, secondly it’s such a pretty song that as a musician you just don’t want to trash it. In just a moment I am going to play the song for you so you can see what I am up against. At any rate, even after playing this song for about 6 months I am STILL intimidated by it on the vocals and on the guitar. I don’t pick the song like you will hear in the video, I simply play the rhythm, but it’s incredibly hard. There is SO much going on with the vocals, and not just in the fact that it is sung in Welsh. I don;t know if a person who is not a musician can understand what I am referring to so let me see if I can put this in perspective for the non-musician out there. It’s like trying to iron a dress and at the same time use your foot to rock a babies crib in time with a lullaby and have a phone ringing in the background that you desperately want to answer but if you put the iron down the dress will burn and if you stop rocking the cradle the baby will cry. It’s that crazy LOL. I don;t know if that makes sense to you, but here is the song and maybe just by hearing it you can understand the difficulty. You know who’s opinion I really want on this is Bumba. Anyway, with that I leave you with Dac’w Nghariad, which BTW means “there is my love” in Welsh…..
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Wives Are NOT Supposed To Listen To Their Husbands. It’s In The Bylaws… …Somewhere… …I Think?!

Much Love Today, Ms. Jaz.
Keep It Real…
…And Rock On Wit Yo Bad Sefff!
hahahaha
-B.
LOL is that how that works Bradley?
As The Unmarried Man I Am, YES.
Well if you do get married please be sure it’s the man of you choice my love….:)
I Foolishly Gave Up The “The One” Man Of My Choice.
Everyone Before AND After Simply Never Felt Right.
I’m Just Thankful “The One” And I Have Reconnected.
We’ll Never Date Again, And I Understand That.
He May Have Forgiven Me, And He May Understand How Much I Truly Loved Him…
…But He’ll Never Trust Me Again.
At Least, I’m Pretty Sure He Wouldn’t.
I Wouldn’t Trust Someone Who Did To Me What I Did To Him, Leaving The Way I Day.
Such Is Life, I Suppose. Such Is Life. :\
Bradley listen to this song I wrote maybe it will “hit” a note so to speak
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I Listened To It Yesterday, Dear, But I’m Doing So Again.
They Are Correct. Excellent Lyrics And A Haunting Voice.
I Love This Song.
-B.
OOps I deleted myself, the point being that I think that’s the way you have been feeling right?
Yes, Ma’am.
At The Time, The Decision Seemed Like My HARDEST Logical Decision EVER.
In Retrospect…
…It May Have Been The Worst.
I know my love, I couldn’t agree more
What a beautiful song Jaz.
As for the guitar playing – rather you than me!!
Ya think LMAO
You should try the vox on for size…What a Nightmare LMao
that’s a beautiful song, and you – i am sure- will do an amazing job with it, no matter which direction you’ll go. it is always hard to work full time with your husband and separate being married with being professional. he probably applies his ear to it, and like a coach, wants to pull out the very best that you can be… and you, as an artist, are following your own little voice/instincts, and i can’t blame you for that, since i’m a renegade and listen to my own voice as well. i am not a musician, though i have always marveled how a singer can follow one melody while the guitar is doing something totally different.
i look forward to hearing your version.
z
Thank you…you are Zeeeeeeeeee BEST. You have no idea how much I loved putting your images to a song that I was actually afraid to produce. Your images gave me the strength…..Thank you LISA! I LOVE YOU MAN!!!!!!!!!
it’s my pleasure! keep rollin’!
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Back at you…we listened to this and liked it very much!
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I used to have a similar problem with dancing. Because I ‘feel’ the music I would dance accordingly. My partner doesn’t ‘feel’ the music, in fact he doesn’t ‘hear’ it at all… Really; he doesn’t ‘understand’ the beat or rhythm as much as I do; he dances ‘technically’. This is okay however, it means that we dance ‘the same’ regardless of the little peaks and troughs of the music…
He’s the lead so I must follow…..!
What a wonderful piece of music, Jaz. You explained its difficulty so well…!
DO you like the iron part, the crying baby part or the ringing phone part LOL which is your fav LOL
Yes, yes and yes; they are all my faves… haha…
Only a woman could do all that, Jaz; and remain ‘on her feet’… xoxoxo
Ya think LOL
Somehow I knew you would get this
Sure do…. Luv ya…
Thank you
Have I told you today how lovely you are